An assistant for your family. A table for your disagreements.
School, medicine, allowance and the sitter in one place — and disagreements become an agreement you both feel good about at the Kitchen Table.
Type to Refairly, it prepares — nothing changes until you approve.
Available on iPhone and Android
Your family and your relationship, in one place.
Each child’s day, your teen’s own space and a table for working things out, in one app the whole household shares.
A daily heartbeat
for the two of you.
The relationship gets a little attention every day — even when neither of you has the energy for a Real Conversation.
A shared map of
who you are.
Most couples never have a structured conversation about who they actually are together. This gives you one — and keeps it living.
The room where things
get worked out.
Mutfak is the Turkish word for kitchen — the room where couples actually talk. Not the living room kept for guests, not the bedroom you escape to. The table where you argue about the bill, plan the week, and apologise between chopping onions. Sometimes the first step towards a solution is being able to say what’s on your mind — and to hear each other.
Feel each other
from anywhere.
The modern “I miss you.” For partners apart for a night or a season — a moment of co-presence you can feel.
The children you're raising,
on the same map.
Add the children you care for. Keep what matters in one place, plan together, and — when they're old enough — give a teenager a space that is genuinely theirs.
Wherever you are, together.
Apart for now
Long-distance, a work trip, a season away. Stay close with Pulse, Buzz, and Buzz Calls.
Busy parents
Little time, less energy. The daily layer keeps you connected without another to-do.
Newly together
Just moved in, still learning each other. The map makes the invisible conversations visible.
After a rough patch
Is there something that gets stuck in the same place every time you try to talk about it? The Kitchen gives you a step-by-step way to try again.
You choose what you share.
Each of you sees what the other has chosen to share. Your daily reflections and your private side at the Kitchen Table aren’t shown to your partner. Refairly’s AI (Claude, made by Anthropic) uses them to help you, never to quote you to them. Refairly, the assistant, works with what the person asking can already see — and changes nothing until they tap.
One plan for everyone at home.
One person subscribes, and the whole household uses that plan: your partner, your teens and a caregiver. No second bill.
- ✓Everything: Family, Today, Us, Kitchen & Buzz
- ✓The Kitchen — sit down and work things out
- ✓A weekly allowance of AI usage
- ✓The whole household, one bill
- ✓The whole app, every day
- ✓The Kitchen — sit down and work things out
- ✓A generous monthly AI allowance
- ✓The whole household, one bill
- ✓The whole app, every day
- ✓The Kitchen — sit down and work things out
- ✓More AI than Pro, every month
- ✓The whole household, one bill
Family features are part of every plan. A teen account is never charged.
Prices in USD; your App Store or Google Play shows your local price and taxes. Plans renew automatically until you cancel in your store account. Refunds follow Apple’s and Google’s rules.
Running low mid-month?
One-time top-ups for the household’s shared AI pool. Each lasts 60 days.
Good to know
What Refairly is not, where its limits are, and how plans and money work.
Safety and its limits
- Refairly is not therapy
- The Kitchen gives you a step-by-step way to try again. It isn’t therapy, and it pauses when someone may not be safe.
- A safety net with clear limits
- Your teen’s check-ins, and messages sent to Refairly, are checked for signs of danger. Your teen is shown where to get help; you're asked to check in only about school or the outside world, not about home. An aid, not a guarantee — and the policy says so.
- Alarms depend on the phone
- Alarms depend on each phone’s settings and connection and can fail to ring.
- Buzz is not for emergencies
- A Buzz Call needs a connection on both phones and can’t call emergency numbers.
The AI and your data
- Nothing changes until you tap
- Refairly, the assistant, works with what the person asking can already see — and changes nothing until they tap.
- Where your words go
- Data is hosted on AWS in Frankfurt. Refairly’s AI is Claude, made by Anthropic: it uses what you write on your own to help you, never to quote you to the other person.
- One part can help another
- What you share in one part can help Refairly’s AI suggest things in another; the privacy policy lists what it uses.
- A teen’s words stay theirs
- You see the mood numbers your teen picks and, with their consent, short weekly themes; their words only if they turn sharing on. They can read what’s shared about them, and Refairly doesn’t reply in a chat unless your teen has said it may.
- A trip plan is a draft
- Refairly drafts a trip for you to check and change. Check opening hours, prices and bookings before you go.
At the Kitchen Table
- A promise, not a contract
- An agreement you make at the table is a promise you make to each other, not a legal contract.
- Unfinished talks close
- Either of you can ask to close things; the other confirms. Unfinished ones close after a while, and you’re told when they do.
Plans and money
- Plans renew automatically
- Prices in USD; your App Store or Google Play shows your local price and taxes. Plans renew automatically until you cancel in your store account. Refunds follow Apple’s and Google’s rules.
- AI use has a limit
- Each plan includes a set amount of AI use, shared by the whole household. If it runs low before your plan renews, one-time top-ups add more; each lasts 60 days.
- A teen is never charged
- One subscription covers the whole household. A teen account is never charged.
- No money moves through the app
- Expenses, budgets, settling up and pocket money are records you keep together; paying each other happens outside Refairly.
- Deleting your account
- Your account is deactivated at once and deleted after about 30 days, except records we must keep by law, such as consent and purchase records. Deleting it doesn’t cancel your plan: cancel that in your store account first. Deletion policy →
Bring the people
you’re doing this with.
Download Refairly, invite your partner or open your teen’s account, and start with one calm step together.
Available on iPhone and Android