How Refairly fits into your relationship
Five steps. No therapist, no referee. A patient companion that learns you both — separately and together — and shows up the way each of you needs.
Connect with your partner
Sign up, complete a short personal onboarding (the AI learns your communication style, what makes you feel loved, what consistently upsets you), then send a connection request to your partner via username search or QR code. They accept, and your shared space exists immediately.
Joint onboarding — the AI learns you as a couple
After connecting, both partners answer five short free-text questions about the relationship. The AI fuses both sets of answers into a shared 'About us' card that lives on your dashboard and informs every other interaction. It never quotes either of you verbatim.
Daily — the heartbeat
Every day: one short personalized check-in (under two minutes), a one-tap mood log, a partner pulse so each of you knows what kind of day the other is having, gratitude messages that build a shared positive history, and a private journal where the AI listens without diagnosing.
Conflict — neutral mediation when you need it
When tension shows up, either person opens a conflict session. Both describe it in their own words. Each then has a private AI conversation that asks personalized follow-up questions. The AI generates three resolution options drawn from what each person actually needs, and you both sign one. A 7-day follow-up checks in: how does this feel in practice?
Growth and Experience — the relationship gets better over time
Coming next: shared goals and habits the AI gently coaches you on (Growth), and proactive date ideas, trip plans, and small moments suggested at the right time for your specific couple (Experience). The AI uses signals from every layer to make each interaction smarter.
Two people, one quiet companion.
Start free with daily check-ins, gratitude, and partner pulse. Add AI mediation when you need it. Cancel anytime.